If anyone needs any confirmation as to why I gladly gave my first wife, Cindy, a divorce after 15 years of marriage, here’s a clue for you…
Late last night the phone rang. I answered it. It was the ex-wife, Cindy, wanting to talk to my eldest daughter. The daughter refused, so we hung up. Then said daughter filled me in on her reasons…
She had no idea of this until she checked her bank account online and noticed that not only had her last deposit not gone through, but that she was mysteriously overdrawn some $250. When she looked at her cancelled checks online she noted a pair of checks, her new checks, written to companies in Pickens,SC and signed with her name, but in her mother’s handwriting! Seems that when she ordered her checks a few days ago, Wachovia Bank screwed the pooch and sent them to her old address at her mother’s house in Pickens.
That’s right, the child’s own mother was forging her checks! This is classic Cindy. Classic! The woman has, since our divorce, been jailed at least twice for a day or two at a time for check forging. The only reason she never served time while we were married was that I was there to bail her out of her messes. Now all Cindy has is her aging mother to bail her out.
Would you, Dear Reader, believe that when Cindy called back to try to get our daughter on the phone and was confronted by me about her actions that she actually threatened to have me charged for failure to pay child support if I didn’t talk our 20 year old daughter out of filing charges against her? No, she has no basis for these charges. I’ve been declared legally disabled back to the very last day I worked, and my children get Social Security Disability payments just like I do -and- they got all the ‘back-time’ as well. That’s how Cindy, (and her mother), work. If caught doing something wrong, or illegal, blame The Bull. He is comfortably several hundred miles away.
Someone please explain to me how it is my fault Cindy forged her daughters checks? How is it my fault that said daughter is tired of her mother’s horse shyte and is not willing to let it slide? Oh, I’ll admit I’m proud that my eldest has grown a backbone and is trying to protect her finacial future. However, at the age of 20, Eldest is an adult and does not need “Daddy” to make decisions for her. At least in my opinion.
How low is a woman that, (while working full time, getting a SSD check from my account each month, getting Gov’t assistance, and nearly free rent), steals her daughter’s checks to pay for her spending sprees? Her daughter who is working her own way through college, no less! How low can Cindy go?
Eldest has talked with Wachovia Bank. The overdraft charges have been reversed, her account has been closed and a new one opened, The bank’s Fraud Department has been notified as well. She has gone now up to the local Police Dept. to file charges here in Mobile, AL which will be forwarded to Pickens, SC. Eldest Daughter is not going to be out even so much as a dime, but it will take a couple of days to get everything back in order. Cindy, however, is facing her umpteenth fraudulent check charge and there is no one to pay to make it go away. Moreover, this may be even more serious since it involves interstate banking. I’m not sure how that works exactly.
Well folks, there you have a very small sample of what I went through for years on end. No matter how I increased my income, Cindy could find a way to piss it away. h, there is more. Much more. That is a taste for the moment, just for you.
Chew on it a while and leave your ‘Moos’…
Update: Folks, you’re gonna looove this! Cindy’s mom, Clancy’s own, much-loved grandmother, has disowned Clancy for taking a stand for what is Right and not allowing her mother to steal from her. How’s that for stupidity? After telling anyone that would listen that she would no longer tolerate Cindy’s thieving ways nor bail her out of trouble anymore, she sides once more with her daughter. This time against her own Granddaughter who was the victim in this entire sorted affair!
Bah! A pox upon her and her daughter, Cindy! This child of mine needs them not.
Bull, out! 
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